MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP PROGRAM FOR WOMEN, MEN, AND COUPLES
David Deida
Live and Uncensored
Monthly Dialogues on
Deepening Purposeful Presence, Attuning in Skillful Love, & Embodying True Sexual Yoga
MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP PROGRAM FOR WOMEN, MEN, AND COUPLES
David Deida
Live and Uncensored
Monthly Dialogues on
Deepening Purposeful Presence, Attuning in Skillful Love, & Embodying True Sexual Yoga
Membership Enrollment Is Currently Closed
A New Way of Learning Deep Sex and True Purpose
David Deida Live and Uncensored is an interactive, live, online monthly membership program with David Deida.
This is unlike any other online program available.
This is a radically practical spiritual program—diving deep into sexual yoga, true-self presencing, and liberating love‘s untamed gifts—for women, men, and couples.
Members get exclusive access to newly recorded talks and trainings from David’s live workshops and intensives. The current audio library already contains over 24 hours of recorded material from David’s workshops and Live Q&A with the group, and more content is added every month.
In addition, every month, there will be a 90-minute interactive call for dialoguing with David Deida and getting answers to your questions directly, which will be recorded and made available in the membership site only.
“Everything you do right now ripples outward and affects everyone. Your posture can shine your heart or transmit anxiety. Your breath can radiate love or muddy the room in depression. Your glance can awaken joy. Your words can inspire freedom. Your every act can open hearts and minds.”
–David Deida
The Way of the Superior Man lays out a challenge before all men to fulfill their true purpose and to be authentically masculine. It will guide you on your journey to a successful and spiritually complete way of life.
“Good artists are skilled, but great artists convey an immense depth of feeling through their expertise. The same goes for the art of sex. A good lover knows how to make the body sing. But a great lover, a superior lover, evokes a vast choir of bliss.
A good orgasm is satisfying, but a great orgasm can be a revelation of your deepest being, unfolding the bright truth of who you are in ecstatic communion with your lover. Sex can be a way of magnifying love’s light through every cell, shining beyond fear, melding your hearts in the infinite radiance of being. Sex can be enlightened—or not.
Most of us bring our problems to bed with us: the tension from a stressful day, our past history of sexual failure, our need to be reassured that we are loved. As we bring light to every aspect of our sexuality, these kinds of difficulties are used to reflect our next place of opening—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Every quandary is illuminated and unfolded by love’s radiant presence. Every tussle is seen with wide-open eyes, embraced, accepted, and understood to be a potential doorway to the true desires of our soul.”
From The Enlightened Sex Manual by David Deida
“Good artists are skilled, but great artists convey an immense depth of feeling through their expertise. The same goes for the art of sex. A good lover knows how to make the body sing. But a great lover, a superior lover, evokes a vast choir of bliss.
A good orgasm is satisfying, but a great orgasm can be a revelation of your deepest being, unfolding the bright truth of who you are in ecstatic communion with your lover. Sex can be a way of magnifying love’s light through every cell, shining beyond fear, melding your hearts in the infinite radiance of being. Sex can be enlightened—or not.
Most of us bring our problems to bed with us: the tension from a stressful day, our past history of sexual failure, our need to be reassured that we are loved. As we bring light to every aspect of our sexuality, these kinds of difficulties are used to reflect our next place of opening—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Every quandary is illuminated and unfolded by love’s radiant presence. Every tussle is seen with wide-open eyes, embraced, accepted, and understood to be a potential doorway to the true desires of our soul.”
From The Enlightened Sex Manual by David Deida
Each Month, David Will Be in Live
Dialogue with Members
Here are two excerpts from David’s live Q&A sessions with the group:
From Surface Pleasure to Spiritual Depth
David Deida | Live Q&A Response
Opening to the Rage Beneath the Resignation, and the Love Beneath the Rage
David Deida | Live Q&A Response
In the area of sacred intimacy, David Deida is holding a lightning bolt. He sheds an astonishing light.
Teachings from David Deida
Exclusively In the Recorded Talk Library:
Love as Art: Foundational Principles
This talk covers the foundational concepts that underlie the practice of sexual and relational yoga, including:
- The nature of the spiritual Masculine and Feminine
- The three stages of growth
- Understanding the critical differences between spiritual practice, art, and healing so that you know what results to expect from each practice
From Jealousy to Ecstasy: Turning Pain into Growth
This talk explores how to transform negative emotions into practice that deepens love and integrity, including:
- Why women are the most potent form of spiritual practice for men
- The difference between the Masculine and Feminine attitudes toward relationship
- What to do when your man’s attention goes to other women
- Why a man’s practice is never enough for his woman, and why that’s a good thing
- Three stages of Feminine sexual expression
Presence at Your Depth: Cultivating Consciousness
In this audio from a recent men’s retreat, David illuminates the foundations of Masculine practice.
- Loving the world without being bound by it
- If you put 50% of your attention on consciousness itself, all of your decisions will be different
- How to cultivate intuition to guide your actions
- Bringing deep consciousness into sex
- How to accept your desires, experience them, and grow out of them
- The fundamental unity of Masculine and Feminine
Cultivating a Wisdom Heart: Reverence for Love
Feminine bodies have the ability to respond exquisitely to subtle shifts in a partner. In this audio, David coaches couples on making use of feminine responsiveness to grow as a couple.
- How to become a connoisseur of your heart’s response to each moment
- How to stop arguing about details and take in her heart’s feedback on how conscious you are in each moment
- Her gift is to show you what you can’t see
- How a practicing couple pulls each other ever deeper into conscious love
- How to surrender into his consciousness
- Two ways to invite more presence from your man
Loving the Living Demoness: Working with Dark Energy
The dark side is where most of our energy resides. If we repress it, we cut off parts of ourselves that could be used to live and love more fully. In this talk, David explores how to love through the whole spectrum of our desires.
- How to access the darker side of our nature with love
- Using the energy of anger to love more deeply and fully
- The conscious expression of Masculine and Feminine anger
- How to love your partner’s anger
- Using your anger to power your deepest gift
- Consciously exploring dark sexual fantasies to enliven your sexual intimacy
- How to approach dark sexual fantasies with a less adventurous partner
Overcoming Obstacles to Practice
This talk is a compilation of David’s responses to common obstacles that practitioners encounter when bringing this work into their everyday lives, including:
- Practicing through physical and emotional discomfort
- How to change a habit
- Loving your partner’s limitations
- When to leave a relationship and how to choose a new one
- Integrating practice into a family with children
Gateways to the Third Stage of Practice
David delves into the differences in how the Masculine and the Feminine approach the Third Stage, how to recognize when you’re nearing it, and how to go deeper rather than running away.
- How to get through the deep depression that the Masculine encounters when it realizes that it will never find satisfaction through money, success, or any other form
- How the Feminine realization that ‘I will never be loved enough’ is the doorway into her greatest gift to the world
- The Masculine and Feminine gifts to one another
- How ejaculation contributes to depression
- How he can use her body’s intelligence as an oracle to discover his purpose
Polarity in Public: Meeting and Dating in the Third Stage
This series of talks explores how to find and attract partners who are ready to meet you at the level of depth and openness you are ready for.
- How to handle polarity in public and avoid being creepy
- How to choose and attract a partner who is ready for deep intimacy and conscious sex
- When to start having sex in a new relationship
- How to take responsibility for your energy in any situation
- The difference between Feminine and Masculine sexual energy in public
- Why we seek our traumas in relationship, and how to turn our patterns into growth
Practicing at the Limits of Pleasure and Pain
What do moments of intense sexual ecstasy have in common with moments of deep frustration and despair? They are the most profound opportunities for practice. In this talk, David speaks on how to use the most obstinate difficulties in our relationships to open to love, and how to stay open to conscious love during the pleasure of masturbation and sex.
- How to transform the worst moments into opportunities for practice
- Loving through your patterns
- Why practice starts at your limits
- Why your darkest sexual fantasy is the key to your spiritual practice
- How to open beyond sexual habits into sexual art
- Introduction to masturbatory practices for men and women
- Having compassion for each other’s development
- How to transform masturbation from a draining distraction to a portal to spiritual depth and intimacy with the universe
Playing with Unequal Sexual Desire
In many couples, one partner desires sex more often than the other. In this talk, David explores this dynamic in a couple and helps them achieve greater sexual depth and polarity.
- How to kindle sexual desire
- How to circulate your sexual energy so that you don’t become needy or demanding when your partner doesn’t want to have sex
- Bring her beyond pleasure through third stage cunnilingus
The Power of Your Dark Side in the Bedroom
Our darker sexual desires hold energies that, when channeled lovingly, can bring more vitality into our sex and our lives. David talks about ways to explore this dark territory in your sexual relationship.
- Why dark sexual fantasies are enlivening
- How to approach dark sexual fantasies with a partner
- How to find the parts of him that you can surrender to completely – and distinguish them from the parts that you shouldn’t
- The difference between liking “girly” things and being in your true feminine
- How to tell whether bringing in additional sexual partners will enhance love, connection, and polarity, or diminish them
Sex as the Play of Consciousness and Love
Each of us has two qualities within us: the boundless emptiness of consciousness and the effulgent pleasure of love. If each partner embodies one of these poles, we can reach deep states of ecstatic sexual communion. In this talk, David helps you bring these qualities through your body so that you can offer them to your partner and die into boundless love during sex.
- An exercise to feel both the sacred masculine and the sacred feminine in your own body
- Conducting the force of consciousness through your body sexually
- How to bring full consciousness from solo practice into sex with a partner
- What to do to help your partner deepen his consciousness in the unchanging depth of presence, or liberate her energy and flow with divine force in every cell
- When to continue pushing your edge in practice and when to relax
The Dance of Masculine-Feminine Polarity
This talk deepens the teachings on the play of Feminine and Masculine begun in the previous talk. David guides specific exercises you can do with a partner to move into polarity—one of you embodying the flow of love and the other the depth of being—including practices that you can use instantaneously in everyday life or in sexual intimacy when the moment calls for it.
- The place for practice is in this and every moment
- Instantly move past the patterns of your past and into the immediacy of presence with your partner
- Evoke your partner’s depth without using words
- How to use breath and body movement to increase the flow of sexual energy between you and your partner
Finding a Partner Who Meets You at Your Depth
People often ask how to find a partner who can truly meet them. But a deeper question is what qualities to cultivate in order to be attractive to your ideal partner, and how to maintain the level of depth that you yearn for. David talks about the masculine and feminine sides of attracting and keeping a partner who is capable of the intimacy that you sense is possible.
- Why do you want a relationship in the first place?
- What is your ideal partner looking for in a relationship?
- Choose how to be in each moment according to your purpose for being in the relationship
- If you find the partner you’re looking for, their standards will be just as high as yours
- How to balance your purpose with your relationship
The Essential Purpose of Sexual Yoga
These teachings explore what is essential in relationships, sexuality, and sexual practice. What are the essential qualities that feminine and masculine beings desire in one another? What do you essentially want in a partner? What are the vital ingredients of sexual ecstasy that do not require an erect penis, a vagina, or any specific body part? What does sexual yoga contribute to our lives? David addresses these and other questions in this month’s audio.
- Why learn sexual yoga? (It’s not to be happy)
- Which aspects of sexual practice take work, and which are effortless
- Learn to let the ache you feel become what a third stage man has been looking for his entire life
- Why you will never find a partner who completely satisfies you, and what to look for instead
- How to lose your erection and maintain your consciousness
- How to stay connected with a partner who is practicing ejaculatory control
- Combining physical and spiritual ecstasy
Sexual Yoga Practices: Fantasy to Communion
David seldom distributes full sexual yoga practices in recorded form. This month’s audio is a rare opportunity to experience solo and partner practices that develop your capacity to bring spiritual depth and surrender into your nervous system through the gateway of sex. These practices begin with your most potent sexual fantasy—however dark and nasty (or light and beautiful) it might be—and transform it into a vehicle to explore the deepest parts of yourself and your partner in exquisite, moment-to-moment communion.
- How to serve open your partner and the world through your darkest fantasy
- The essential masculine and feminine sexual gifts
- How would you move in her so she surrendered open to the divine alive in her own heart?
- How would you receive him so that he loved more than he ever has, so that he had no choice but to give you the part he’s always held back?
Refinements to Your Sexual Yoga Practice
In this month’s audio David responds to obstacles and experiences that arose during the practice shared last month, including:
- The essential purpose of the practice
- How to overcome awkwardness when bringing an exercise into the bedroom
- The importance of going slow
- Establish yourself in the result of the practice before you begin
- The two types of shutdown that can occur during practice, and how to respond to each
- What do crying or laughing during practice mean?
- The only thing she cares about
- How to serve open your partner and the world through your darkest fantasy
Loving Fully Through Your Limitations
When we come up against our own physical or emotional limitations, there is a temptation to move our focus to the limitations and work on them until we think they’re gone. In these tracks, David offers another possibility. There is a part of each of us that can’t be hampered by limitations. David guides us to find that place and offer the art of loving presence through our limits.
- Why part of you will never be good enough, and why that doesn’t matter
- Integrating pure awareness with emotion
- Allowing your partner to guide you deeper than you can go by yourself
- How to use dirty talk to experience the full range of sexuality, even if you think you’re bad at it
- Two ways to integrate practices into your life
Giving the Love You Want to Receive From Your Partner
This talk begins with a partner practice that invites you to develop your full capacities for lovemaking by learning to move fluidly between first stage lust, second stage emotional invitation, and third stage devotional surrender. In three tracks, David responds to questions about the practice, such as:
- How the masculine partner knows what to do next in each moment of practice
- How to feel deep satisfaction, even when your partner isn’t giving you what you think you need
- Why your feminine partner will always resist your love, and how to enjoy the dance of opening through her resistance
Inviting Love Through Thick and Thin
In this series of talks, David guides a practice on how to irresistibly invite your partner into intimacy, from your deepest yearning to theirs. Then, he teaches how to see your wounds and patterns as conduits for the art of loving fully rather than as obstacles to love.
- How to give your partner what they want from your deepest truth
- Invite your partner into practice or into bed from the true yearning of your heart
- How to set up an agreement with your partner for when you get overwhelmed in practice
- Turn your pain into an offering rather than a stumbling block
- Two paths of working with dysfunctional patterns: one that takes a lifetime, and another that is instantaneous
The library also includes ALL previous live Q&A recordings,
and more recorded content released regularly…
Plus, a Special Members-Only Bonus:
Monthly Feminine Practice Sessions
Join David’s students Lisa Page and Nina Lombardo for a David Deida Live and Uncensored exclusive Feminine Practice Session every month. This is an additional 90-minute live call every month and is strictly limited to those who identify as women.
NEW!
Monthly Masculine Practice Sessions
Join David’s student Christopher Sunyata for a David Deida Live and Uncensored exclusive Masculine Practice Session every month. This is an additional 90-minute live call every month and is strictly limited to those who identify as men.
David Deida is the one western teacher of tantra whose books I read and whom I send students to learn from. The results of true practice, in any tradition, are unmistakable; David Deida demonstrates them.
David Deida Live and Uncensored
As a Member, Each Month You’ll Receive:
- A 90-minute Live Interactive Call with David Deida
- Never-before-released recordings from David Deida’s trainings
- Access to the Recorded Talk Library (over 24 hours of audio and increasing)
- Feminine Practice Session (woman-identified participants only) and Masculine Practice Session (man-identified participants only)
Enrollment is Closed
100% Money-Back Guarantee
We are confident you’ll be happy with David Deida Live and Uncensored, including the two live calls and exclusive recorded teachings. However, if you are not 100% satisfied with your purchase, simply contact us at productions@deida.info within 21 days and we’ll give you a full refund, no questions asked. You may also cancel your subscription at any time.
What Participants Say:
“Every time my wife and I stop to listen to the material it is always very important, it seems to speak directly to our challenges and further refines the practice and the journey, it is like being in contact with the universe from our desire to grow our love and consciousness. It’s been amazing!”
“I can’t express how profound this is for me – I feel like this work is addressing things I’ve felt and experienced but never knew how to articulate. All of the things I’ve ever read only addressed 2nd stage relationship – the 3rd stage resonates so deeply and it is so incredibly helpful not just to understand the theories, but to actually have specific practices around it. I can’t thank you enough for sharing this work with us!!”
“[David’s] clarity is like a laser beam – straight on point, cuts to the root of the problem…can be painful…and yet so necessary to remove dead tissues. I am also grateful for Lisa – just by seeing her speak and move is illuminating and informing for my feminine!!”
“I am more aware of and connected to my true essence as a result of the calls and education from them, so enjoy myself more and have more energy. There is a huge mess of confusion in the world and our cultures about these topics so I find the depth and truth wonderfully refreshing and healing, and reassuring, as part of growth.”
“I love the direct openness and spontaneity of these sessions. Many changes within since beginning this work. A wonderful confirmation of my path and expansion in ways that are deep and profound. So often the deepest spiritual teaching doesn’t translate well into the realm of intimate relationship. But David’s wonderful teaching and presentation brings true Spirit alive in the more earthly domain. It really is a privilege and a blessing to have this opportunity to work with him. Thank you all so very much for making this possible.”
“I really love the content, David’s perspective on relating, and have especially enjoyed the Q&A sessions and hearing him work with people on specific issues.”
“This program has been incredibly valuable to me and my partnership. It’s difficult to put into words how much impact it’s had on my perspective, and given words and concepts to feelings and patterns I’ve experienced but could never previously articulate or put into context the way David does. More than years of therapy (which I realize is a different thing entirely), this program has been deeply healing, nourishing and enlivening and has allowed me to connect to myself and to my partner in a way I never realized was possible. Thank you so much for doing this work.”
“I love listening to David answer questions. I find that I relate to nearly every single one and learn from each talk. Hearing David discuss the same things in new ways is incredibly helpful. Sometimes he says something a slightly different way and I understand it on a deeper level. I love David’s work, and having access to these recordings I can easily put on and listen to allows me to stay connected to the work throughout the day.”
About David Deida
Acknowledged as one of the most insightful and provocative spiritual teachers of our time, best-selling author David Deida continues to revolutionize the way that men and women grow spiritually and sexually. His teachings and writings on a radically practical spirituality for our time have been hailed as among the most original and authentic contributions to personal and spiritual growth currently available.
Deida is known worldwide as the author of hundreds of essays, audiotapes, videotapes, articles, and books that bring to light an integral approach to spirituality. His books include the best-selling underground classic, The Way of the Superior Man; several practical texts on authentic sexual spirituality, including Finding God Through Sex and Blue Truth; and the autobiographical novel about highly unconventional spiritual training, Wild Nights.
Frequently Asked Questions:
Is this a live or prerecorded course? Can I ask questions?
Inside the Recorded Talk Library, you will get access to over 24 hours of teaching from David Deida that is not available anywhere else.
David will also be on live calls each month and speaking spontaneously to questions that arise from participants. If for any reason you are unable to make any of the calls, they will be recorded and you will be able to access them in a private membership area.
When are the live calls?
The live call schedule for the rest of 2021 is below. If you miss a call, it will be recorded and available in the membership site within one week.
90-minute calls with David Deida are planned for the following dates at 2pm ET:
November 11th
December 9th
90-minute Feminine Practice Sessions are planned for the following dates at 6pm ET:
November 17th
December 15th
90-minute Masculine Practice Sessions are planned for the following dates at 6pm ET:
November 16th
December 14th
What is the actual curriculum and what will you be covering?
If you have ever taken a course from David you know that he works directly with what arises in the moment and what is best for the entire group.
Can I download the recordings and audio files? What if I miss a call?
Yes, you will be able to download the audio files so you can listen to them on your mobile device or computer. If you miss a call, it will be recorded and available in the membership site within one week.
David Deida Live and Uncensored
As a Member, Each Month You’ll Receive:
- A 90-minute Live Interactive Call with David Deida
- Never-before-released recordings from David Deida’s trainings
- Access to the Recorded Talk Library (over 24 hours of audio and increasing)
- Feminine Practice Session (woman-identified participants only) or Masculine Practice Session (man-identified participants only)
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